Party Like A Millionairess

Welcome what I am introducing to you as FAB FRIDAYS!

FAB FRIDAY blogging will talk about ways to unwind like a millionairess

  As an aspiring millionairess life can get a bit (a lot) hectic.  Stress and sleep deprevation are serious parts of our lives.  To balance that I suggest you find what helps you to de-stress and do it regularly.  Last night to relax I went Park at 14th. 

In true future millionairess style Lauren (MY ROD) and I did not pay and did not wait in line (To things I absolutely hate to do).  VIP as always and free drinks galore... These simple things make the earlier stressors of the week not seem so bad. 

Park is a great place to unwind because there are plenty of people who are willing to have conversations with you and a few actually dance here and there (rarely).

At the end of the night I left smiling and Turnt Up with style.  All and all aside from the attraction that married men seem to have for me it was a good night.

Pictures will be posted on the "It's A Photoshoot" Featuring The Future Millionairesses page soon

http://futuremillionairessdiaries.blogspot.com/p/its-photoshoot-featuring-future.html

*Shout Out to Freddie Brown III for always treating Lauren and I like the future millionairess we are!

SUPPORT HIS BUSINESS THE OVER ACHIEVERS

MUCH LOVE

~Future Millionairess

Keeping Your Millionaire or Future Millionaire Happy

Ok future Millionairess today's lesson is on keeping your Millionaire or Future Millionaire happy.  It is of utmost importance that we, as aspiring Millionairess remember that we are STILL ladies! Even if we wear the pants in the business world when we get home we have to take those slacks off and put on those skirts and heels for our man.

This is especially important with men of power.  A real man of power is always powerful he doesnt just turn it on and off at the drop of a pin.  This doesn't mean you shouldnt have your way at home, in fact you should get your way more often than not.  It just means that we have to be more creative about getting to our goals.  Putting your foot down and making demands will not work too often with a professional negotiator, which your man will undoubltedly be in the task of protecting his millions on a regular basis.

What I am really saying is... The best way to keep your Millionaire or Future Millionaire happy is to LET HIM BE A MAN.  PERIOD. END OF STORY.  Learn the vital ART OF EGO STROKING!  Make sure that he knows that he is the man, assure him that he is King and he will hang on to your every word, want, need, and desire.  Your admiration is like adrenaline to him and he will do whatever is neccesary to keep getting that high.

It takes alot more strength to take the back seat than to be the independent, imasculating, "I have to have the last word" type of woman.  And Honestly anyone with a Millionaire's attitude will not want to come home to a battleground. 

In short CATER TO YOUR MAN, make sure that he knows how proud of him you are, and how happy you are to be with him and it will be returned to you 10 fold.  When he is wrong DON'T embarass him, DON'T degrade him, wait for the approriate time and respectfully address the issue at hand.  If he doesn't react positively and respectfully and you find yourself having to degrade him to get him to listen to you then he has to go... After you are a Millionairess yourself and you don't depend on him...

The Run Down:
1. Let A Man Be A Man
2. Learn The Art of EGO Stroking
3.  Cater To Your Man
4. Don't Embarass or Degrade him When he is Wrong
5. Don't Settle For Less Than The Best From Him

~ Future Millionairess

Your First Personal Shopper

All hail Kim Kardashian for blessing us little ole' FUTURE Millionairess with the chance to feel like an actual millionairess.

Do you love shoes?? Well let Kim pick out a pair of shoes for you and send them to you once a month.
Ms. Kardashian aka the future Mrs. Reggie Bush recently started an online personal shopper website called Shoe Dazzle.

It's very easy to use and pretty economical.  Go to the website http://www.shoedazzle.com Take the style survey and put your information in and you are given you shoe choices for the month.  At only $39.95 a month this is a definite steal and it saves you the time hunting at the mall.  

I was skeptical at first because I DO NOT do cheap shoes.  When an associate of mine received her first two pair of shoes I put them to the test and though I haven't had the chance to slip my feet into the glass slippers I am impressed by the stock of the shoe.  It is sturdy, well padded, and equipped with slip resistance.

As soon as I get my first pair I will give you low down on comfort.

Now for what she is offering...

Check it out future Millionairess....

THE  FUTURE MILLIONAIRESS CLUB SUPPORTS SHOE DAZZLE!!

~ Future Millionairess

Basketball Baller Style

Future Millionairess status affords me some major perks which includes access to planholder season tickets to the Wizards games.  Last night I definitely took advantage of that opportunity.  

A Future Millionairess always takes her closest friends with her to the top... 

Meet Ms. Kia Debnam, her aspirations don't include membership into The Millionairess Club, none the less she is a definite friend to all millionaires... Look out for her major impact on the community through youth out reach!

OH LOOK IT'S ME!! The Future Millionairess herself! I thought I was a Wizard Girl with my Pom Poms... I mean hey anything could happen!

Yes future millionairess and millionaires, those tickets say

 Section 112 Row H Seat 1,

 i.e. CLOSE AS HELL

All the pictures were taken by my camera phone which has no zoom... That's how close I was.

The adrenaline rush from watching a basketball live is truly memorable!  Being able to hear the ball hit the court from your seat is undoubtedly the way to go. I could see the muscle definition in Carmello Anthony's Arm.  It was amazing... 

Next step is to be on the floor getting my beer and nachos stepped on by the some basketball player's size 13 sneakers (that really happened to someone last night).

From not having to watch the game on the Jumbo screen, being able to see everyone on the team's face clearly, to not having to wait in the line at the concession stand because of my season passes.  All in all last night was definitely Future Millionairess Status...

Ta Ta For now Future Millionairess and Millionaires

~Future Millionairess

The Future Millionairess Herself

Hey Hey Hey Future Millionairess & Millionaires (Ladies always come first)

    I am the creator of this fabulous blog, "The Future Millionairess Diaries" and I want to give YOU the opportunity to get to know me.

Where The Future Millionairess Is Now
    First off I have a little secret... I don't sit around all day blogging (no offense but I'm not going to find my millions here).  I am actually a full time student in my last year at a well-know illustrious university, whose name I wont divulge. On the other hand, I will say that I am currently living in DC in a studio apartment (sheik I know).  When I'm not in class finishing off my degree, I am at my job slaving away, or in the fast lane of the DC life, Day or Night. Ok, wait a minute lets go back... I am a student, I live in a studio, and I slave away... Yes ladies and gentlemen, I am not a millionairess.  It hurts just to say it,  I mean honestly I'm not even a hundrednairess... smh.  But its ok and hence the title FUTURE MILLIONAIRESS


Future Millionairess Dreams & Aspirations
    I wont lie, it would be nice to find a millionaire, marry him, have a bunch of millionairettes and spend the rest of my life as, wife and mommy millionaire but that just isn't me.  I need more!  I want to begin building my own empire by the time I am twenty-five.  Doing what you ask? Communication consulting, I want to tell you how to communicate in your business and your personal lives efficiently and get paid the big bucks to do it.  After that, the millionaire and all the millionairettes can then become a part of my short term dreams and aspirations.


Future Millionairess By Popular Demand
    As was explained in my last post I have been called numerous names in reference to my search for the millions. They have ranged from the harsh term of "Gold Digger" to the not so bad, "Investment Seeker".  I could have rejected all of those labels and attempted to disprove the poor souls who don't see the dollar signs in their vision but I wont.  Call me what you want because I am going to have what I am searching for and I wont find it in a man first.  I am going to create my own fortune.  Yes it's true that I wont marry anyone who isn't on my level so he will HAVE to be a millionaire or future millionaire, but that is only natural.  "The Future Millionairess Diaries" will take you along with me on my journey to the millions.  I hope you enjoy the ride!

 ~ Future Millionaires


P.S. Don't be afraid to ask me about myself in the comment section.

Why Talk About Me First When I Can Be About Me First!! Ya Digg?

Hello Future Millionairesses and Millionaires,
   
   Before I write an introductory post I figured why not let everyone see what I am about through my raw opinions. Why talk about it when you are about it, right??  Here is my first post and the inspiration for the creation of The Future Millionairess Diaries.

~ Future Millionairess

Why I gotta be a Gold Digga???



Lately I have been called a gold digger because I only date financially stable men. Even a few women have raised their eyebrow at me... well guess what silly rabbits the truth is, "SMART GIRLS MARRY MONEY." No,  I'm not saying they marry only for assets but they definitely don't marry into liabilities.

I'd like to address the whole "Gold Digger" term and what has apparently put me into this category.

I WILL NOT/DO NOT pay on dates: If I'm paying we are just hanging out. There is no dating going on, we are just two friends meeting up to talk about life. I don't go dutch and I don't get the tip... It's that simple.
Why you ask? My daddy taught me I should never have to go into my purse unless I want to... the bottom line is whatever man I let in my life has to know he is the primary provider and always will be.

When I decide to start popping out kids what's going to happen when I can't work??? Is he going to ask me to go dutch on some diapers and formula while we are leaving the maternity ward?

If you OFFER it I will take it: Let me start by saying I don't ask for anything. I only accept what is offered to me. If my suitor wants to spoil me why should I say no. A real man would never want to see his woman go with out.

The Point? I am a reflection of my man, if I am lacking the things that I need and he is not he still looks bad in the public eye. He is not doing his job as a man POINT BLANK PERIOD! Also, keeping a smile on my face is most important. If he wants to keep smiling I have to keep smiling. It's the way of the world folks!

He has to have HIS OWN PLACE: Before I begin let me say that I am very understanding and if there are extreme circumstances living with his parents can be tolerated for a short amount of time but... After a while he is going to have to cut the cord because I am not going to his mother and fathers house to sleep with him. At my age it is extremely disrespectful to have sex in a parents home. We are too able and too grown to behave that way. Owning his own place is a major plus... It is a definite sign that he is thinking of the future.

He can't be HOOD RICH: Please do not drive a brand new BMW and live in your parents apartment. That is UNACCEPTABLE. Don't buy all your friends bottles in the club and then have the nerve to ask me for some money the following week. If he is flashing his pinky ring but the bill collectors are calling his phone that is a problem. It shows me is that he does not have the future nor stability in mind and that he is a showboat who needs the world to see what he really can't even own or afford for that matter.

I say all this to say... I have standards and hey if your standards are so low that you can assign mine to that of a "gold digger" then SO BE IT.

But let me leave you with this: I have never heard anyone call a man a "Beauty Digger" and ladies truly if you calculate the money you spent at the mac counter and the mall trying to look good for him, because you know he wont have it any other way, than you can surely say he is digging too!